Wednesday, September 23, 2009

我快乐吗?

你认为我现在过的日子快乐吗,赵先生?
我只是在过能够令大家放心的日子,就这样而已。
大家放心,起码我也不会有烦恼
如果不这样过日子,我其实也不晓得该怎样

一开始选择权已经不在我的手上,它就不属于我
我不能反对,不能有异议
我只有服从,只有跟着走
我根本没得选。

公平吗?能够问谁?
没人能答我,也不会有人答我。
因为你和我,在他们的世界里根本就不值得一提,
你倒霉我也倒霉,都是不幸被选到的棋子,
莫名其妙的被利用,来完成自私战场上的棋子罢了!

你就算含冤而终,也都走了。另一个世界应该会好过这里
我呢?
我没的选择走不走,

走的话
我应该会被打下十八层地狱,永不超生
那时你在天堂,我在地狱

不走
那我只好慢慢地等到终老到来的一天
报了仇,
我再找你算

70 comments:

  1. 对您是倒霉被抽中的棋子。但是,请不要放弃您的生活,我们这些素未谋面的人,说的话,能帮的忙,应该是在您的世界里也是一瞬间的事情,匆匆的来,无声无息的没了。。。但是,人间有情,有时就是这一种无形的关怀。
    不知道还能做什么,但是,我们真的关心您。所以,请务必保重自己。还有您的家人也一样啊~

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  2. 我不知道可以说些什么来减轻你的痛。
    因为我知道,我们无法想象你的痛。
    只想给你一个拥抱。告诉你,请振作,请保重。我们会陪着你走下去。

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  5. I am posting this translation so that others who do not read Chinese (but really do care and concern about you) can understand your struggle. You may remove this if you are not happy with it...

    Do you think the life that I am going through now is a happy one, Mr. Teoh?
    I am only living a life that is bearable, and able to put others at ease.
    When others are at ease, at least I would not be troubled mentally.
    Are there better ways to live?

    The right to choose is not within my hand from the beginning.
    I have no right to say “No”, no right to object.
    I could only obey and follow instructions.
    I have no choice at all.

    Are these fair? Who can I direct such question to?
    No one can provide me with an answer, and no one would.
    This is because you and I are both non-existent in their world.
    We are both very unfortunate to be chosen as a piece of chess in order to complete their selfish battle of war!

    To the end, you are to be blamed. You are also gone forever.
    Living in another world should be much more pleasurable than here.
    What about me?
    I have no choice whether to continue or discontinue this journey of life.

    If I continue: I would end up in hell, never would be reincarnated. Then it would be heaven and hell that tears us apart.

    If I discontinue: I can only wait for death to come. I’ll reunite with you after revenge.

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  6. take comfort and all the time to grief. I know no words can express your hurts and lonliness but I m gently keeping u in prayers each day. Hugs to you cher wei.
    Jadelyn

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  7. 衷心的祝福您。。。。
    愿您找到欢喜寻回自在。。。

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  8. 既然你说选择权不在你的手上
    既然你说了你们都是倒霉的棋子
    既然一切都已经不在掌握中

    愿你
    能 过得开心
    是 真的开心

    很多人都在关心你~

    还有 宝宝!

    加油!

    此路难行 但 乃必经之路

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  9. 当事情发生时,我们感到愤怒,悲恸。。。
    虽然我们不是明福的至亲,
    我们无法体会你们失去至亲至爱的心情;
    但是这个悲剧,并不只是属于你们,
    而是关乎全马来西亚人民。
    任何有良知的马来西亚人,都不会置身事外。。。

    前路虽艰难,我们的关怀支持
    也只能给予你们微小的精神慰藉,
    但我们是衷心的祝福你们。。。

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  10. be brave my friend. We are all behind you.

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  11. be strong my friend,thousand of malaysian behind you and will remember it, throught we donno each other or religion, I will pray for you. Find you freedom for your spirictual and your happiness.

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  12. My knowledge of the Chinese language is only basic. But I cried my heart out when I read what you wrote. I can only ask you to be strong...for yourself, for all who love you and for your baby.

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  13. 快乐也得过日子 不快乐也是过日子 何不选择快快乐乐过日子?
    你是他们的棋子 可能没错
    但是如果你这粒棋子能够改变这个政局的话 (希望)
    我想这粒棋子也他的意义在里头。(恕自私心态)

    希望你能够勇敢地坚持下去!

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  14. 感性的一篇,愿他能读到您这一篇文章。。。衷心的祝福您,希望明天会更好。。。加油!加油!

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  15. 相信这番话是你真心的告白。希望你勇敢的活下去。无论为你深爱的明福其家人或你自己及无辜的孩子。

    在马来西亚这个司法不公及腐败滥权的政治环境里要还明福公道不是一朝一夕可以兑现的,而相信你是最有资格在需要的时候继续的向党团与相关部门施压的。

    对于你的心情,我谨表同情,并且谢谢你的文字提醒我们你是需要被关心的。希望你写了出来心境能够得到了释放。

    要求的话暂时没有,只是热切期待你振作,继续与你信任的家人朋友一起度过这难关。

    谢谢你的坦白。

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  16. 路难走,还是的走下去,想想你的孩子末来.不要自暴自弃,坚强起来,往好的一方面想.加油~加油在加油.

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  17. Cher Wei, we all know that you will need time to be fully recovered. So take your time, don rush. The pain won't simply disappear by pretending it is not there. It is alright to cry, it is ok to be down once a while.. But pls, always remember that you are not alone... take care my friend.. You are right, we shouldn't say Goodbye.. We should say, See you Soon!

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  18. 你现在最需要的是时间,时间能冲淡一切,千万别做傻事。原谅自己,也要原谅别人!一切从新开始吧!
    iyouwe.info在此献上真诚的祝福!

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  19. 妳把自己形容為“棋子”
    但妳可曾聼過王菲的“人間”這首歌?

    它的歌詞也許可以啓發妳!

    妳的背後都有我們支持妳。祝妳愉快!

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  20. 明白您那非常无奈的感受。但日子一定要过,而且还要好好的过。请相信还有很多关心您和孩子的人,请坚持。

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  21. 人生中会有快乐和不快乐的事,对于赵明福的去世,我也感到很无奈,可是人生的路毕竟还是要走下去的,我想明福在天之灵,也希望看到你能快快乐乐的继续人生的道路!

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  23. Face and feel whatever happen to you. recommend you to read the book “当下的力量". This will help you awakening your life purpose. You will found whatever happen to you now is the opportunity for your.

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  24. Good Evening.
    Beng Hock = Tomorrow's blessing / peacefulness (In chinese). BH's and your baby is your all's tomorrow blessing. Now, as "Beng" is gone, hope the remaining blessings (brave mom, history maker junior BH, perhaps the greatest politician, and all the blessing from all the people who know about your situation) will happen now, hope what he left for you and junior would be sufficient to live on before your folks unite again / BH's death is avenged.

    All the blessing,
    Blessers

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  25. 淑慧,政治是肮脏的.远离他们,你会活得更好.

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  26. 希望你好好的走下去,明福一定会陪伴着你和宝宝的。

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  27. 我希望你好好的走下去,你和宝宝才是最重要!我相信他能明白你的痛苦。

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  28. Dear Cher Wei,
    Perhaps, as perhaps, Beng Hock will 投胎 to be your junior and be with you soon. Anything is possible.
    Blesser

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  29. 没有人不能没有谁
    没有人能告诉你是谁
    没有人没有了谁就不是谁
    没有人不能没了谁就不能是谁

    你有权力难过
    你有权力选择不再难过
    你有权力选择难过后不再难过
    然后你有权力选择日子从新来过

    淑慧,我们为你痛心不打紧
    你可别为自己痛心,知道吗?

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  30. 打从一开始,你就已经没有选择的余地。你的心情我可以理解,我为你写了一篇文章,这篇文章最终没有放上我的部落,原因?。。我不想让它成为政治课题。

    我站在你的立场,感受着你的感受,我清楚的知道,一个女人在最痛苦的时候,脑袋里是一片空白,你根本无法做出抉择,也不会有任何决定。

    我知道这一切发生在你身上的事情,都不是出自你的意愿,他们是否有为你着想?为一个年轻的女孩着想?为你的父母亲着想?为你的家人。。。。。。

    我不想说太多,既然事情已经告一段落了,你应该选择自己的生活,没有人可以帮助你,你只能靠你自己。

    安慰的话人家还是会说,但是,如何去面对现实还得靠你自己。

    别人希望我们永远是一颗棋子,是多么的残酷。同样的,我们也有选择的权利。

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  31. 天荒愛未老,始终是痴心的梦想。个人感情有时很难长远相守。天上地下难求知己有情人,世界虽然很大,却只有一种能永恒相守的爱,人人都能一同享有。那就是神的爱!



    人生最可怜的事,不是生离死别。。。 而是。。。当面对自己所拥有的,自己却不知道它的珍贵!!!



    正 如 有 许 多 物 理 的 原 则 管 理 着 这

    个 物 质 的 宇 宙,同 样 的,也 有 一 些

    属 灵 的 原 则 管 理 着 你 和 神 的

    关 系。

    神 爱 你,并 且 为 你 的 生 命 有 一

    奇 妙 的 计 划。

    (这里引述的经节最好是在参考圣经的情况下使用。)



    神的爱

    "神 爱 世 人,甚 至 将 他 的 独 生 子

    (耶 稣)赐 给 他 们,叫 一 切 信 他

    的,不 致 灭 亡,反 得 永 生。"

    (约 翰 福 音 3:16)





    神的计划

    耶 稣 说:

    "我 来 了 是 要 叫 人 得 生

    命,并 且 得 的 更 丰盛。"

    (更有意义的生活) (约翰福音10:10)

    为 什 么 大 多 数 的 人 都 没 有 经 验

    过 这 种 丰 盛 的 生 命 呢?

    因 为 ...

    人 因 有 罪 而 与 神 隔 绝,

    所 以 不 能 知 道 并 经 验

    神 的 爱 和 神 为 他 生 命

    的 计 划。




    人因有罪

    “因 为 世 人 都 犯 了 罪,亏 缺 了 神 的

    荣 耀。" (罗马书3:23)



    神 创 造 人 原 是 要 人 享 受 与 他

    同 在 一 起 的 快 乐,但 因 各 人 顽

    固 任 性,偏 行 己 路,背 向 真 神,

    以 致 与 神 隔 绝。这 种 向 神 任

    性 的 态 度,使 人 对 神 漠 不 关 心

    或 公 开 反 对,就 是 圣 经 所 说 的

    罪。

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  32. Cheer up. I don't know you personally. But I wish you all the best. Be strong.!

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  33. Hi,

    My condolences to you and your families for the loss.

    I'm not able to read chinese, so I relied on the transaction given by Chrisandra above.

    I believe there's always choice. And the freedom to make the choice we want is most important. I hope to God that you have that freedom.

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  34. 讀經: 哥林多前書13章1-13節
    金句: 「如今常存的有信,有望,有愛;這三樣,其中最大的是愛。」(哥林多前書13章13節)

    亨利.卓蒙德(Henry Drummond, 1857-1897)是著名的科學家和作家。他曾領導勘察南非的地質,並就熱帶非洲寫了一份頗具權威的著作,但他最為人稱道的是一本關於愛的書---《世上最大的事》(The Greatest Thing In The World)。

    卓蒙德寫道:「當記憶在往昔的歲月中穿梭時,它會悄然越過生命中一切轉瞬即逝的歡樂,躍然跳出的是那些美好的時刻,就是你為身邊的人做一些不為人注意的善事,那些事可說是微不足道……在人的一生中,恐怕只有這些事能夠常存。」(As memory scans the past, above and beyond all the transitory pleasures of life, there leap forward those supreme hours when you have been enabled to do unnoticed kindnesses to those round about you, things too trifling to speak about . . . . And these seem to be the things which alone of all one’s life abide.)

    保羅告誡說,有些恩賜雖然備受關注,行動令人矚目,卻不過是空洞的噪音而已(哥林多前書13章1節)。我們竭力做工,但若沒有愛,只不過是鳴的鑼,響的鈸罷了。「我若將所有的賙濟窮人,……卻沒有愛,仍然與我無益」(3節)。若是有愛,最小的行動也有永恆的價值。

    不管我們的年齡或地位如何,我們都能夠努力去愛別人,就像上帝愛他們一樣。我們這一生,也許能成就一番驚天動地的偉業---聲名遠播,富甲一方,但最大的事是去愛,因為我們所做的或將要做的一切,惟有愛永遠存留。我們會離開世界,愛卻常存。(David Roper)

    我們愛是因為他先愛了我們,
    他先給予,所以我們才能給;
    我們愛是因為他先觸摸我們,
    他已死過,所以我們才能活。(Sper)
    We love because He first loved us,
    He gave so we can give;
    We love because He first touched us,
    He died so we can live.
    —Sper


    有一句俗語說:「豹死留皮,人死留名。」不過在很多人的經驗中,對於令他們懷念的過世的親人或好友的回憶裡,恐怕印象最深刻的還是他們留下來的「愛」。我對母親的回憶便是這樣的。事隔多年,我仍然清晰地記得她對丈夫、子女和朋友的無怨的付出與無私的愛。雖然沒有辦法在物質上提供我們最好的,她卻一針一線,用愛與時間為我們親手為我們縫製衣飾。

    母親的愛有如上帝的愛的化身,不過上帝的愛卻大過母親的愛。上帝的愛是從上到下的,不但愛可愛的,也愛那些不可愛的。祂為你我道成肉身,成為人的樣式,為我們的罪釘死在十架上 ── 這是一種完全的愛。

    愛不可愛的人當然是不容易的,也是單憑我自己不能做到的。願上帝幫助我活出祂的心,真誠地愛我們的家人、朋友,喜歡我們以及不喜歡我們的人。包括MACC!

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  35. 已发生的事,既然你没有选择权,就由它吧;
    对未来,想想孩子,因为他的未来需要你。
    为了孩子,坚强的活下去。。。好吗?

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  36. 王菲 人間

    作词:林夕 /作曲:中岛美雪

    风雨过后不一定有美好的天空 不是天晴就会有彩虹所以你一脸无辜 不代表你懵懂不是所有感情都会有始有终 孤独尽头不一定惶恐可生命总免不了 最初的一阵痛 但愿你的眼睛 只看得到笑容但愿你留下每一滴泪 都会让人感动但愿你以后每一个梦 不会一场空 天上人间 如果真值得歌颂也是因为有你 才会变得闹哄哄天大地大 世界比你想像中朦胧我不忍心在欺哄 但愿你听...

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  37. 从林吉祥说第二天是你们的注册日,到后来你澄清只是拍婚纱照起,我就深深为林吉祥这一伙人为了煽动民情、无所不用其极感到极度愤怒!

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  38. 林吉祥这一伙人拥有被真理唤醒的心! 行为表现值得尊敬!

    (赛1:17) 学习行善.寻求公平、解救受欺压的、给孤儿伸冤、为寡妇辨屈 ...

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  39. Hi there Ma'am. Neither I speak chinese nor do I know you or your late husband personally. Yet I am here trespassing to offer my condolences to you. Your story broke my tiny little heart. However, I'm positive where ever your late husband is right now he would want you to stay strong for you and your child. God bless.

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  40. droplets of comfort is impossible to quench the sea of grief that you are feeling, but Cher Wei, please look to the waves of loves from the " ocean " of people, family, & friends, those who know you, care & concern for you and your baby.
    Be brave, be strong within you, you & your baby, may your day be filled with love everyday

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  41. 我们都能体会你的痛,但没有你体会的深...
    痛的時候...維一的选择...就是要学会坚强的忍...忍

    要忍是因為...我們不只是為自己而活
    我們还有父母兄弟姐妹,至亲...
    我們也為他们而活,他们也為我們而活,不是吗 ?

    如果
    不能忍,只會让至亲更伤心及恐惧...
    让事情更惡化,什至更进一步深深伤害了家人,活着的人
    相信沒有人愿意看到這樣的結果,包括你在内...對吗 ?

    自怜自哎只會让你及至亲的痛永无止境...让仇者更快
    時間會帮你疗伤,但也要你懂得体会及放下...

    坚强站起來吧
    让你肚里的孩子看到阳光吧
    让你的至亲看到希望吧
    让明福九泉之下安息吧
    让广大群眾的我們看到坚强的你吧...

    即使法理不站在你這邊,但真理一定站在你這邊,广大群眾就是真理的拥护者
    沒有明福的日子,日子还是要过
    人生路还很長,尤其是對你的孩子,期待你早日康复,我們支持你

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  42. Be strong and may god bless you, your baby and his soul.

    Please take good care of yourself and the baby.

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  43. 再多的安慰,相信也无法抚平你破碎的心,如果你就在我面前,我会选择抱紧你,让你再我肩上狠狠地哭,想哭的时候,想想我为你打开的双手,哭可以让人更勇敢,请勇敢地释放你自己,后再坚强地活下去,不管事情再怎么坏,都不会没得选,因为生死由天,命运由己,手中的牌再烂,都有一个最完美的排法,我相信你可以,死者已矣,活着的人需要你,继续付出你的爱,一定要幸福 - 芬上

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  44. BE strong this is really hard situation for you. But please dont lost the hope. True people out there will stand for you and your child.We are for you sis !!!

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  45. stay strong, we are all with you.

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  46. An improved version:

    Do you think the life that I am going through now is a happy one, Mr. Teoh?
    I am only living a life that is bearable to others, so as to make everyone at ease.
    When others are at ease, I would at least feel less anguished myself.
    Are there better ways to live my life?

    The right to choose is not within my hands from the start.
    I have no option to say “No”, I have no right to object.
    I could only obey and follow the given path.
    I have no choice at all.

    Is it fair? To whom can I direct such questions?
    No one can provide me with an answer, and no one would.
    This is because both you and I do not deserve to be mentioned in their world.
    We have the misfortune to be treated like pawns in the games of chess.
    To be expended in their despicable battles for self-interest.

    To the end, you are to be blamed.
    You are also gone forever.
    It is more gratifying to live in the other world than here.
    What about me?
    I do not have the choice on to whether I should continue this journey of life or to end it.

    If I choose to end my life,
    I would end up in hell, never to be reincarnated.
    It would then be heaven and hell that do us apart.

    If I choose to live on,
    Only death by old age awaits me.
    I shall reunite with you after your death is avenged.

    Note: Translated by Chrisandra, Daniel and JS.

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  47. we cannot change the fact, but we can change the government using the only vote we have in hand.

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  48. Hi, cher wei, the most important thing now is to take care yourself and your baby.

    May be PAKATAN RAKYAT/DAP try make use of you to their own benefit but this the ONLY WAY TO FIND OUT THE TRUTH.(IS IT WHAT BENG HOCK/YOU WANT ? OTHERWISE JUST IGNORE PR/DAP AND CONTINUE YOUR OWN LIFE)

    DO YOU THINK THAT BN/MCA WILL TELL YOU THE TRUTH ?

    TAKE CARE

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  49. Cher Wei,

    We grief with you when we read about Beng Hock.

    Stay strong, the journey still long.

    May be one day when you are old and look back, you will understand the purpose of Beng Hock life and death.

    Beng Hock would not die for nothing.

    His death is not in vain.

    His death will be recorded in history like many who have died in World War I & II for the sake of humanity, justice and peace.

    Beng Hock died for future generations.

    Beng Hock died for fellow Malaysians, many who have yet to borne.

    We will continue to support you in spirit and in your baby financial well-being.

    Everyone trying the best to find the killers.

    But let not hatred sink into your heart. It is not good and healthy. It eats up you energy and life.

    Let God avenge. Justice has to be server but learn to forgive and move on.

    We will remember you and your family in prayer.

    May God be your strength.

    May God bless you and keep you, may his light shine upon you and give you grace.

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  50. 素慧。。听听Tank的‘如果我变成回忆’。。是明福想要唱给你听的。。。相信我。。其实,至少他对你的爱是深的。。

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  51. WHAT TO VANISH & PERISH?

    How my sorrow and pain won't readily vanquish
    With my deep loneliness and anguish to languish
    Though certain memories will never ever vanish
    Even if I long for all perpetrators to perish

    (C) Samuel Goh Kim Eng - 250909
    http://MotivationInMotion.blogspot.com
    Fri. 25th Sept. 2009.

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  52. NO REST FOR PAWNS IN CHESS GAME

    When we are viewed as the ocean's prawns
    We know why we are regarded as mere pawns
    In the game of chess played close to some chests
    As long as the game is on there's no real rest

    (C) Samuel Goh Kim Eng - 250909
    http://MotivationInMotion.blogspot.com
    Fri. 25th Sept. 2009.

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  53. BE HAPPY WITHOUT BEING GRUMPY

    How can one be happy
    Without life that's snappy
    Travelling on a road that's bumpy
    Bumping into too many people who are grumpy?

    (C) Samuel Goh Kim Eng - 250909
    http://MotivationInMotion.blogspot.com
    Fri. 25th Sept. 2009.

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  54. 苏慧,

    我们素未谋面,但请不要让我,还有一群关心你的人伤心,失望。明福的事已经让我们很心痛,我们只想你好好的生活。虽然那不简单。我相信时间能够冲淡我们大家的痛,更相信你对明福许下的承诺。

    你有发言的权利,也有你要好好的生活的权利.孩子也有生活的权利.不要伤心,不要害怕,我们会与你同在。

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  55. 加把勁......你和小孩一定要活得好!別讓「有心人」在暗中偷笑。加油!




    加影、異言譚

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  56. Hello, I am Ron. U need not to know who am I. I am just a uni student. But I can tell u that Mr. Teoh would not suicide. And of cause I will help u to pray and chant so that the TRUTH can be revealed. U dont worry, just bare in mind that u need to take care of U n Mr. Teoh soon-born-son. Dont do silly thing by committing suicide. BY now, this moment, I am struggling with the harsh assignment due dates... Yet, I have to live on so that I wont regret... U too ok? Pls do the same... Stay stongly day by day... Pls, believe this with me together - "Truth will be revealed"...
    Regards, Ron :)

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  57. dear cher wei....i am sorry and sad for what had happened to you but no matter what you still have a life with wonderful things ahead of you and dont forget there's another life growing in you. So try your very best to be as strong as possible for the sake of yourself and the little life growing in you. Keep him all the good memories you haa with him in your heart and continue to go on....take good care of yourself as i believe that he will cherish the love you both had and will not want to see you to suffer. be strong.....

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  58. your story has been told nationwide... everyone knows you and him.. but remember this :) that we only know and we think we know how much pain you went through.... but we don't feel as what you felt... i've always believed when i get a cut on my hand, there are people would laugh at me for being so careless; and there are those who come to my aid.. but only me alone feels the pain... and to take care of my cut so it heals fast...
    so no matter how many good people or bad comments in your world, you can only heal yourself... by taking care of your 'cut' so it will heal in time... not to be forgotten but to be remembered and cherished...

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  59. be strong ... i am sure "he" want to see you go on with you life happily...do not let "him" down ...Gambatei!!!

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  60. BE STRONG AND LIVE ON COURAGEOUSLY. TAKE CARE AND WE PRAY FOR YOUR WELL-BEING ETERNALLY.

    E LING N FAMILY

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  61. I am appolitical I supposed, as I am just an ordinary housewife with 2 young kids. But Teoh Beng Hock case has inspired me to voice out any dissafctifaction towards any unjust incident on any human being regardless of race, religion ,etc,etc...Only you can feel the 'real'pain, only you will know how helpless when thing went wrong and there is no second chance to undo the wrong... But through you, we Malaysia know something has to be done for the betterment of Malaysia.

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  62. 我们一出生是为了自己而活,不管身边出现什么样的人,事,物...那些都只是属于我们的回忆和经历.回忆和经历是我们人生中的考验,任务,教训和经验,让我们的人生更加的完整或进步.人类只允许进步不允许失败.希望你能从你各种不同的回忆当中进步和走下去.人类是为了自己而活,开心或不开心是介于自己如何看待.

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  63. 中秋节本来是多美好的日子,可惜的是月圆人不圆体......

    人有悲欢离合,月有阴晴圆缺,此事古难全。

    但明福和你,来世人长久,代代共婵娟。

    陈默 贺

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  64. 淑慧,

    祝你中秋节快乐,不要让人看扁了,好好的活下去,加油!


    ~~求真

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  65. Your words well expressing your feeling. Although I do know you well, but I am truly understand your feelings and position. Let us be acknowledged and accepted the truth that we are living in imperfect world full of injustice. Stay clam always and let God be God. the truth will prevail one day. Believe in God, who is the creator of heaven and earth, wholeheartedly with your mind and soul. Let God fill you with His grace that make you lacking of nothing. God will give you the comfort and condolence you need. Do forgive those who have done injustice to you. Let you free from all these hurts and live your life to its fullest. You are not alone. I shall put you in my prayers list. Let God's grace stay with you always.

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  66. 淑慧:

    生命是無常和充滿很多無奈的,我認同你所說,我們沒有選擇生命的權利。但是,我們能夠選擇面對生命的態度。

    你的網志讓我若有所思,也很感動。雖然我們素未謀面,我也一直沒有在國內,卻一直很關心這件舉國轟動的事件,也很關心你的身心狀況。現在你有了這個抒發的管道,讀完你的分享,很是欣慰。

    身在香港的我,會時時祝福你平安,健康和快樂,還有未來順利把寶寶誕下。

    May peace and happiness be with you always.

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  67. I believe Teoh Beng Hock is a hero, and I am sure your child will grow up to know him as one.

    Teoh Beng Hock !
    Teoh Beng Hock !
    Teoh Beng Hock !

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